Four ways to prepare for divorce negotiations

On Behalf of | Dec 14, 2021 | Divorce |

Most people who face divorce want to resolve the matter as quickly as possible so that they can start the next chapter of their life. This is understandable, but rushing too quickly into a divorce settlement can leave you without the resolution that you need and deserve. With that in mind, let’s take a look at some ways that you can prepare yourself for divorce negotiations to ensure that you’re achieving a fair outcome.

  1. Know your non-negotiables: Identify the items that you truly need coming out of your divorce. This may be a vehicle that allows you to get to work. It might be a specific bank account that will ensure that you’re able to secure a new place to live. Whatever it is, make sure that you can articulate why you can’t move on that item and try your best to make it a reasonable request.
  2. Identify what your spouse wants and needs: If you can conduct this analysis beforehand, then you can better develop a negotiation strategy that can leverage certain assets to get what you want out of the divorce.
  3. Be holistic: This sounds simple enough, but far too often spouses hide assets to remove them from the marital estate. This prevents the other spouse from receiving a fair distribution of those assets. So, make sure that you have a firm understanding of your marital finances and are investigating any red flags that may appear.
  4. Keep a respectful tone: We know that it can be hard to curtail emotions during the divorce process, but it’s oftentimes necessary to ensure that negotiations are productive. You certainly don’t want to be pushed around and taken advantage of during negotiations, though, so try to strike a tone that is respectful and professional.

Remember that these are just a few tips for preparing for your divorce negotiations. There’s a whole host of other steps that you can take to better ensure that you’re getting the resolution that you deserve. If you’d like to learn more about what you can do to position yourself for success, then please continue to read our website and consider reaching out for the support that you think that you may need.